the Lewis Approach

The Lewis Approach is a verbal system that enables you to get your needs met in interpersonal interactions with others, thus preventing conflicts and enabling happy and problem-free relationships. It is scientifically based because when used, it automatically uses up naturally produced adrenaline, the “fight or flight” hormone produced in the body, which causes many conflicts, arguments, and problems to occur and escalate. It simultaneously provides a clear path for endorphins to release, the “feel good” hormone in the body. This keeps you and the other person level, more mentally fit, and safe. The Lewis Approach is uniquely different because of the science to it. The words drive the process. Once you learn the words, you automatically realize the benefits and results. It’s that simple.

different & better: Medical model vs. needs met model (Lewis Approach)

When it comes to mental health and relationships help, everything else out there, like all counseling, therapy, etc., is based on what is known as a medical model. That means the basis is that there is something wrong with you and you need to be treated or fixed. You can see for yourself in the news the results that gets.

In contrast, the Lewis Approach is based on what is known as a needs met model. That means the basis is that there is nothing wrong with you, you are perfect being you, and that you simply need to learn how to get your needs met. Once you can do that, your mental health and relationship troubles seem to just melt away. That is how all of our clients get such fantastic results every time.

The science of the lewis approach

here’s how it works using the lewis approach (good)

• You want to get your needs met (basic human instinct).

• If you can’t get your needs met, your progress is blocked and your stress increases.

• Your body automatically releases certain hormones like adrenaline, norepinephrine, dopamine, and cortisol, in response to help you get you get your needs met.

• Use the Lewis Approach! When you say the words, it automatically uses up the hormones, maximizes, and speeds up the time it takes to eliminate the stress.

• Stress and anxiety are eliminated, which means reduction in depression that reduces suicides and saves lives.

• The result is strong mental health and great relationships, too. Life just got better for you!

here’s how it works not using the lewis approach (bad)

• You want to get your needs met (basic human instinct).

• If you can’t get it, your progress is blocked and you get upset.

• Your body automatically releases certain hormones like adrenaline, norepinephrine, dopamine, cortisol, serotonin and GABA, in response to help you get you get your needs met.

• You don’t use the Lewis Approach and your needs are still not met.

• Your stress hormones continue to run wild and stress and anxiety sets in.

• When your needs are still not met, depression sets in.

• When your needs are still not met, from the mental health side, you can develop suicidal feelings, biopolar, PTSD, and other mental health problems.

• From the relationships side, leads to more arguments, verbal criticisms and attacks, painful breakups, hate, resentment and violence.

• Results in mental health problems and troubled relationships, both of which make you much worse off.